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This is how to be badboy

(Source: BadBoy PUA)

Badboys are often considered as cocky jerks. But, they anyway seem to be a chick magnet. Girls love this kind of men – they are masculine, strong, confident, they are FUN. But, remember this – being a ‘badboy’ is not the same as being a bad guy. It’s about respecting yourself. How to be Badboy is simply placing your needs above her needs!

Nice guys are focused on pleasing a girl’s needs, doing everything she wants while forgetting their own needs. Badboys are focused on themselves. First they satisfy their needs and then they reward a woman (if she behaved according to his needs and standards).

Nice guys give everything away too easily (their time, their respect, body, money), but how to be Badboy is to put more  of a  challenge,  fun, to be  interesting, full of life, a tease… Badboys are hard to get.

But the biggest difference between those two is :

Nice guy needs her attention, needs her, while Badboys DO NOT NEED HER. Badboy can walk away any moment from her and replace her with better girl. That’s why girls are chasing Badboys.

this is how to be Badboy :  you have to implement  this things in your Game/ Personality that will make girls call you a “Badboy”

1. Set the Boundaries/Rules of your love life. 

At the moment woman  crosses the border of what’s allowed, you  walk away from them (approach another girl in front of her eyes) or even better, kick them out from your house/apartment. PUNISH BAD BEHAVIOR, REWARD GOOD BEHAVIOR should be your MANTRA.

Remember : The moment you start respecting yourself, they will start to respect you, this is how to be  Badboy

2. Be Late 

This is a 180° spin from Nice guy that will arrive earlier and wait for her. Let them wait for you little bit. There is an psychological effect with being late. Creating “I need him’’ frame is what professors on Uni do all the time, they are late on purpose for 15 min, and therefore create “they need me” frame. Everything goes smoother from there.2Be Non-responsive on her tests/shit.

To be Badboy you have to be more relaxed than she is, more in control,  and when she tries to provoke a response from you with something like “I have a boyfriend”,  just be very slow, non-reactive, with a smile on your face and in a 3 second delay respond with : “cool”.

3. Have a Life! 

How to be Badboy is to have your life  full of hobbies, activities, interesting things you do. Girl has to look at you like: “wow, he’s living a life I would like to live.” + she understands your free time is a gift to her. She has to work to get  your time. She is just one more thing you do in your day not a hotspot of your day.

How to be Badboy – Memoirs of a Badboy

4. Be sexually open 

Badboys are not hiding their sexuality. They are very comfortable with their sexuality. If he likes something on his girl, he will say it, or act on it. E.g. If she has a nice ass, he will spank her gently and whisper “yummmmmy’ to her ear. Badboy will express his mind, he will  always tell what’s on his dirty mind . BADBOYS ARE DIRTY!!!  Girls love this, because Badboys allow them to fulfill their dirtiest fantasies, something they cannot  do with their “normal” boyfriends who may judge them for it.

5. Lead, Lead, Lead… 

You make decisions and do not hesitate – you know what’s good for her (and in the end, it is). Badboys take them to places where they feel good, comfortable… Badboys take over control so she ends up playing his game. That’s how to be Badboy.

6. Take the Risk! 

Badboys are a risk takers, if they have to choose between safe route and risky one, they will  choose the risky route  and that makes an ADVENTURE (even if risks are very small). This makes a girl feeling ALIVE. It’s totally opposite from what Nice-guys are doing with them.

7. Be Unpredictable

They love when they can’t figure you out. Normal guys are predictable and easy to control because of it, but with with Badboys they have no idea what’s next, where they’re gonna end up, where he’s going to take her. That makes things so much more interesting for a woman. If she thinks you will take her for a dinner, you take her to Zoo, and other way around…How to be badboy is to be  unpredictable, have fun with them.

-Make her buy you things

Instead of spending money on her, flip the table.. and make her spend money on you. Not each time, but from time to time show up without wallet on date ( promisse you wil pay  next time hehe), or explain her that you expect from her to take you out somewhere
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8. and the Most Important, Keep the Nice-guy in you. 

Every Badboy has a soft, nice side, but he’s hiding it. She has to deserve to see it, to experience it, its a reward.

 -Focus on Yourself / be selfish

this is an core of Being an Badboy – this is how to be Badboy Nice guys focus hardcore of girls pleasure and make sure she is happy, and satisfied, which girls found :  Boring
So instead of trying just like any other guy to satisfy her ass, you flip the table. Example. You go on date where you want to go, not where she would like to go. You wanna see some cool movie in cinema, you take her there to see movie YOU would like to see, not what she would like to see! In your life your happiness is way more important then hers. You infront of her. Your needs infront of hers. ( until you move to relationship) then things will change. This is the core of how to be Badboy. Practice it!

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