Use a disqualifier. It can not be an insult, it can not be anything that she can't overcome like you have kids, it can not be something bad about her. It should be something positive. If you don't disqualify yourself early on, they will think you are hitting on her.
(She might say "why you are here then?")
You have to be a challenge for her. High status men are not easy to win. If she attracts you easily, she will be skeptical about your other qualities.
If she want you to buy her drink, don't. But if you order yourself one, then offer politely. if you don't offer, it will look like a lack of social intuition.
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